Hi, I hadn't even noticed the 'Lurkers' designation. I'll feed it back to the powers that BE, one of the things with 4N, especially in the UK is they have taken deliberate steps to break down the 'crustiness' of business networking so I suspect that 'Lurkers' is part of that process. At any 4N meeting there is a tremendous diversity of people. We encourage people to be themselves which is great but can also cause a few issues from time to time, however freedom is a core value of ours so it is worth it. If you are a person who is easily offended then probably not the best place , maybe a group like BNI would suit you more. They have a more formal and conservative structure. Having said that, I'm not aware of anyone in Aust who has been upset or offended at one of our groups or on our site. If you are in Sydney come along and check us out. Cheers, Grant